I like being held in their hard arms and abs and smell their cologne/aftershave.
I have an oral fixation that only cock can satisfy.
Jesus this is gonna be my horninest post now isn’t it?
Please let the horniness flow
Amen!
So for you, it’s less about appearance and more about sensation/how they make you feel?
Yeah, appearance beyond having a healthy body isn’t that important to me, like basic hygiene and not being obese. Them being a good person matters a lot to me. Smell is important to me too.
I guess gravitate twoards more average height/build guys instead of muscleheads tho, because those huge kinds of guys scare me even if they’re sweet.
What does it feel like for you to be held in the arms of someone you’re attracted to like you mentioned?
Also if you are bi (your name has “sapphic” in it but I’m not assuming that you are or not😅), how does your attraction to men differ from your attraction to women, nbs etc?
I’m bi but monogamous and married to a woman, she’s bi too so we like oogling at hot strangers together, but are pretty much just sapphics in practice :p
For the men I have been with I liked it when they held me tight and made me feel small/precious. It’s kind of difficult to describe, but surrendering yourself to a cute guy who you know is gonna do good things to you is really freeing/comforting. Makes me feel all tingly inside ya know?
I guess that’s the self centered bottom fantasy lol
And there’s tones of the patriarchy in those dynamics that i can identify, but the horny overrules
Women can make me feel like this as well, but I’d probably need to find a butch or a more than average assertive woman.
What other differences are there in your experience between being in relationships with women and being in relationships with men?
Sry i saw the reply but didn’t have time to type and forgot.
I think the biggest difference is the traditional roles we both fell into once we got used to each other.
As much as I would like this to change as our society evolves, in most relationships there’s a “top” and “bottom”, for lack of a better comparison. You can have a very fair relationship but there’s still going to be one of you who is usually the “face” of the relationship when interacting with the world and others.
With guys I was rarely in the “top” position in interactions, i took the lead when the situation was something i only had experience with or if it was with a group of my friends instead of his. I kind of prefer this because I love just getting to ride along and not have to plan or be the social one.
With women I was usually pushed to be the “top”, i don’t mind it, but most women prefer to take on that role in a relationship from my experience.
Other differences that come to mind would be:
-Men are hot, like temperature, they are always radiating so much body heat
-Men are more physical sexually feel way more comfortable initiating sex, I’ve never been uncomfortable with the guys I’ve met with tho cuz i kind of want/expect more sex earlier on in relationships from guys.
Women on the other hand, are physical romantically, they like kissing and holding hands and snuggling, but a lot of women feel uncomfortable moving from romantic to sexual. Probably because so many women are abused sexually in the US. Which puts it on me to initate most of the time.
-like every guy plays some kind of regular games, either sports or videogames, they’re more playful and competitive
Women like to watch things or read, they like hearing stories over playing games usually. I’ve met a lot of women who feel intimidated or unwelcome playing multiplayer games with men.
Don’t stop while you’ve got momentum. Keep going!
Penits
As a woman this is my favorite post. I’ll have to probably think clearly before I type a response, the horniness is clouding my mind😅
Has your mind cleared up enough to answer?
For starters, I adore how eager men are to satisfy me (doesn’t matter if they are masculine musclemen or twinks), they look at me dead in the eyes, it’s very intimate.
Second, I love it when they pin me down & thrust deep, a man moaning as they pound a woman is so sexy.
Third, them trying to wrap their body around me is so comfy (plus their musky scent🫦)
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I think it depends on the woman’s preference. But yes it’s okay
Is there anything particulary special about a man’s scent? Can you like, smell the difference between horny and not?
I am hetero, and it doesn’t feel like a choice, at all. Sex only feels like sex when it’s with a guy. I wish it were otherwise, honestly, men are troublesome and I think cause most of the world’s problems (sorry, guys). My kids think I should be gay, too, it’s funny. But what I affirmatively like about men, in particular?
Fit guys are so fucking gorgeous, men’s bodies can be beautiful and so strong. And men in general are less hung up about their looks, and mine - they see what is good more than what is bad.
I like my partner to be bigger than me, at least as tall as I am or close, and that’s much easier to find with a man. And I’m subby but sometimes like to fight back and with guys I know cannot win, I can let go.
The obvious - PIV feels oh so good, my favorite sex is just sex.
And I do like that we are different. I am not sure if I would be straight or gay if I was a guy.
A second question is what do you like about PIV/dick? Because reading certain forum posts gave me the impression that oral was more important and that PIV wasn’t.
I couldn’t get off from PIV until I had my last baby and the ten pound wonder knocked something around in there on the way out. Now it’s easier, and multiples that way are all pleasure, nothing to power through or endure between them. But even when I couldn’t, it was my favorite. Not sure I can explain it to someone who doesn’t enjoy penetration. It’s not how I do myself, I can cum easy from direct clitoral stimulation but when someone else does it it’s almost too intense, and trying to get more than one almost hurts, though I don’t think I am oversensitive at all.
I guess the mind is the biggest sex organ, right? And getting fucked like that is just so arousing mentally.
Oral feels good but unfortunately it is a fast road to a bladder infection for me now, oh well. So I have to be careful, go clean up right after. I do think guys who are good at that are good lovers though because you have to be able to respond and adjust.
So penetration is a both a psychological and a physically pleasurable thing? Does it change based on whether you’re being penetrated by a dick, fingers, or a toy?
Penis is best by far, unwrapped. Like, sometimes I’d rather be cum in than get off myself. Fingers second place, whole hand rarely (it’s more a submissive thing than a physical pleasure, I hate when a fist pops out OMG it feels too much like childbirth and throws me out of the moment).
Toys I don’t bother with, I don’t use them on myself and on the rare occasion I want DP it’s pretty easy for us to find a guy who is into that, and just have him wrap. If I wanted a toy I’d probably get a vibrator not a dildo, but I don’t love those either, they feel desensitizing.
Fingers on the outside, cock on the inside are my preference, but I do like being fingered inside as well, just not as much.
Does a man’s size matter to you? Also, what does PIV feel like vs just fingers vs getting yourself off?
Yes I do like thicker hung guys. PIV feels full, every part of my inside pussy so full. Fingers are more flexible and I do like guy hands in general so having that in me is very good. That overly aggressive “come here” thing guys do trying to hammer the g spot just hurts but a little softer can work.
With oral, oh heck yes fingers inside tongue outside, that is intense. But as previously noted I can’t receive too much oral, too prone to bladder infection.
I do not like fingers up my butt. Don’t love anal in general but it’s ok occasionally if the stars align, feel clean enough and want it at the same time.
Do PIV orgasms feel different than clit orgasms to you then, and if so, how?
men’s bodies can be beautiful and so strong
What do you find beautiful about men’s bodies?
Shoulder to waist ratio (frame not muscle - I like that on women too) and guy hands and forearms, men’s legs are often really nice when they are in shape because they are leaner than women. But mostly it’s the overall frame, the way guys can look strong and sturdy.
Your words are exactly what my woman describes
I send her videos of me doing things where the only things in shot are my hands and forearms, maybe a glimpse of my uniform, while I work on a piece of machinery or do something physicality demanding
She absolutely loves it
She makes me feel special, even when I’m doing something dirty and rough
Are you into just one body type or others as well?
I like very tall and skinny, or my height (ish) and anywhere from lean and muscled to fit and healthy but on the fat side. Usually bigger guys if my height, I have hangups about my own body. Not both tall and big, I guess those hangups run in both directions, lol - I hate feeling big but also hate feeling very small.
I have had lovers both a little shorter and my weight but I wouldn’t say they were my “type” though it was fun to get tackled by them - that whole strength advantage guys have is a turn on, we can look the same size and I am stronger than I look but still any guy my size can hold me down.
What about body hair on a guy? The thought of being into someone that is hairy is a little foreign to me but I guess some people are into it? Are you one of those people (and if so, what do you like about that)?
I’m indifferent. Appreciate grooming, and don’t like a pelt, but guys don’t get to choose that. Not a specific turn on, no.
Speaking of hair, are you attracted to balding or bald men?
What is it about hands and forearms that you like?
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