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  • TerminalEncounter [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago

    It should feel like it’s not really there, at least it does for me. You might have to get used to the band (the big thing that clips at your back) squeezing a little. The straps might feel a little weird at first, but you get used to them. You can have a little bit of space in the cups for sure, that’s fine. Secret of bras is, if you wear a sister size up your boobs look bigger hee hee hee and it feels mostly the same!

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        4 months ago

        Straps might be too tight, did you loosen them off? It’s easier if someone else does it while you’re wearing it btw. My ex used to do it for me, after we broke up I’ve asked my female friends and sister to tighten em up lol. You can also just tighten or loosen it before you put it on. I always end up being a bit above the loosest setting for it to be comfortable and not falling off my shoulders