idk as valentines day is coming around i feel especially lonely, but trying to date would open up a whole other can of worms.
To make sure someone would be attracted to me as I am now and as I (hopefully) will be, they’d basically have to be bi. But that feels like a very weird requirement to put out there… plus the idea of having to identify as a guy in a dating app is not an appealing one. this sucks.
I appreciate the sentiment, and I think “filter” is a good word for it—it’s not that I want to date bi people in particular, it’s just being realistic that anyone who’s strictly into women probably won’t be into me atm.