idk as valentines day is coming around i feel especially lonely, but trying to date would open up a whole other can of worms.
To make sure someone would be attracted to me as I am now and as I (hopefully) will be, they’d basically have to be bi. But that feels like a very weird requirement to put out there… plus the idea of having to identify as a guy in a dating app is not an appealing one. this sucks.
this kind of thing is why t4t is so popular. you’re going to have a much easier time finding an understanding trans person than an understanding cis person in this way. actually, i think every boymoder i know is dating another boymoder.
also not related to being trans, make sure you don’t get into a dangerous relationship due to the loneliness. i’ve been there, it wasn’t good for my mental health!! i would recommend doing things with friends to dissuade loneliness so you’ll be less inclined to date shitty people. that might be the aro-ness talking though, so if that doesn’t work at all for you im sorry
good luck comrade, you deserve love
REAL. it sucks so much to feel desperate.