• roux [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    8 months ago

    “Ren faire used to be cool but now it’s woke” is like 2 degrees away of saying that about Pride. One thing I’ve genuinely liked about comic conventions and and ren faires is that it always felt like a safe space for the queer community. This is just straight up nonsense.

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      8 months ago

      Me with Dungeons and Dragons. When I first met a aggressively homphobic DnD player, I was generally shocked they existed. My queer, DnD, and kink groups were just short of being represented as a single-circle Venn diagram.

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        In my longest running DnD group, I was the only straight person. I’m getting ready to start a new group and I think it’s closer to a 50/50 split. My wife and her friend are both bi but I donno about the dm or the other 2(?) players.

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        I mentioned my longtime DnD group in the other comment. I was the only straight person. But I’ve played DnD with bi, gay, lesbian, trans, and even furries lol. We only turned away one person that was part of a sort of open relationship quasi poly thing a gay couple we are longtime friends with because he started hitting on my wife both in and out of character.