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Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.net to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.netEnglish ·
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Pronoun discourse on twitter is making me lose my mind. CW talks of misgendering and defense thereof

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Pronoun discourse on twitter is making me lose my mind. CW talks of misgendering and defense thereof

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Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.net to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.netEnglish ·
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https://xcancel.com/OldManNikolai/status/1813854659704246450

  • ikilledtheradiostar [comrade/them, love/loves]@hexbear.net
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    No just use name instead of pronoun

    So “she’s the worst” becomes “Gary’s the worst”

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      That’s gonna make certain conversations in the English language unwieldily as fuck

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        The key word point is “certain conversations”, not all conversations. So its probably going to be fine most of the time.

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          You’re probably correct that most time, you’d figure out the persons pronouns before such a conversation came up. I’m just saying it’s not a good long term solution since the English language is pretty reliant on pronouns.

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            Fair point but it does seem we’re reliant on pronouns less out of necessity and more out of habit.

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              Are their languages that don’t use pronouns at all? I’m not familiar with any, it’d make it difficult to discuss a person when you don’t know their name.

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                …discuss a person when …

                • Hey, you know that person we met last night?

                • Suzie, could you go help that person standing over there by the deli counter?

                • So do you know the name of the new cashier?

                • I was supposed to have a group meeting with the classmate that usually sits next to me.

                • When will the mechanic be done working on my car?

                • I’m expecting a call from an insurance agent.

                Seems pretty easy to me.

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                  Fair enough, I guess old habits die hard.

                  Maybe we should just call everyone “Gary”.

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                    I’m down if you are.

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        You can use other names than Gary.

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          Gary should become a gender neutral pronoun.

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        Some people are really good at just using names. It’s a skill.

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          Damn, I’m impressed. I know I’d struggle with it.

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            Honestly I struggle with remembering names so that strategy seems too advanced for me blob-no-thoughts

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              I can barely remember my own name most days

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      Either I didn’t read it right or the other person edited it after I commented idk

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        o7 happens to the best of us comrade

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      y’all remember names?

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        Repetition is the key to remembering someone’s name

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