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Adn@lemmy.today to askmenover30@lemm.ee · 1 year ago

Do you have a “Third Place”? And if you do, where is it?

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Do you have a “Third Place”? And if you do, where is it?

Adn@lemmy.today to askmenover30@lemm.ee · 1 year ago
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  • InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works
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    For those asking, Wikipedia is a decent start:
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place

  • taladar@sh.itjust.works
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    What is a “Third Place”? The only definition I know is as a place that is neither home nor work in an urban environment but that is less personal.

    • caseyweederman@lemmy.ca
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      Correct. They largely went away for various reasons but still feature heavily in media.
      OP is asking if you go to a place that is neither home nor work.

  • JamesStallion@sh.itjust.works
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    I have no idea what this means.

    • bionicjoey@lemmy.ca
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      A place to regularly socialize that isn’t home or work. Ideally somewhere that you can reach within walking distance of one of those other two places.

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    I am stressed out by groups of people and have some (not crippling) social anxiety. I tend to come home right after work as it’s my happy place. I don’t see the appeal of bars, libraries, etc as a Place To Be because I have my home (which is a privilege I am thrilled to be able to have) and bought one so that I can be there instead of out in an environment that isn’t mine.

    I do have a virtual third place if that counts - it’s a Discord server. The people there are friendly and I can always lurk or leave if I don’t want to socialise.

  • Nyssa Sylvatica@lemmy.world
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    Yes, I have a local wildlife refuge with a long gravel road that heads through the marsh. It’s my sunrise thinking spot. Occasionally run into people I know, but never planned.

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    A little down and to the right of first and second

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    Sort of? Playing tabletop role-playing games is my go to, but that is either at a friend’s house or my house.

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    Art class

  • Conyak@lemmy.tf
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    I don’t even have a second place anymore. I’ve been working from home for so long. I only interact with co-workers for ~15 minutes a day on zoom.

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    I have two: my neighborhood library, and a few bars. Depends if I’m in a reading or socializing mood

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    I don’t go very often, about once a month, but it’s the bar with my friends.

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    My PlayStation 2
    https://youtu.be/Laf9vpJMDjA

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