• xantoxis@lemmy.world
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    It’s the complaining about it–asserting your correctness to everyone around you–that makes someone the asshole.

    Everyone always thinks they’re right. If you didn’t think you were right to act a certain way, you would do something different! Acknowledging afterwards that you were wrong and made a mistake is what makes someone tolerable.

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      I don’t know about that. I certainly think I’m right when I do something, but I have a healthy dose of imposter syndrome, so I tend to do a lot of testing before hand, and when something goes wrong I assume it’s my fault until I can prove otherwise.

      It always seems strange to me when people need to be proven wrong. Usually when I’m wrong, I’m the person who figures it out, because I always assume problems are my fault.

      The weird thing is, this leads to an enormous amount of trust in me by others, which I find exceedingly uncomfortable.